Jack Reacher wrote:You are absolutely right, people low down in the social class should just accept that their life is a downward spiriling pattern and just learn to become love and live with it with a smile on their face.
Bedeekin wrote:I have never turned on somebody or told them I wish they died.
I did find out at an early age that anger seemed to cause a strange reaction in people.
I never saw it when others were being shitty or nasty or angry... when others got angry I saw people shrink and hide from them... I saw others seem to acknowledge that anger and react in a way that seemed beneficial to the one being angry, nasty and malicious. I see it at work... I see it everywhere. People seem to get what they want when they are being angry.
However when I got angry, pushy or tried to be malicious to get the same reaction... to watch people fawn and pander to it... it always backfired on me. People wouldn't run. People wouldn't shrink away or pander to my outburst. They would just say 'Shut up Ben... calm down.. you are making a dick of yourself'.
So I found from an early age that I couldn't get angry without making a dick of myself and looking like a complete twonk. Also.. I hate seeing anger in other people. I hate seeing outright nastiness. Most of all.. what makes me feel angry is seeing outright nastyness and anger being allowed to happen while people sit and take it.
Xanth wrote:Jack Reacher wrote:You are absolutely right, people low down in the social class should just accept that their life is a downward spiriling pattern and just learn to become love and live with it with a smile on their face.
That's a tad too literal and too physical.![]()
I'm mostly referring to emotional outbursts. I know bedeekin knows exactly what I'm talking about.![]()
I'm not saying don't try to better your circumstances either (which is, I think, what you're referring to), but if you have to hurt someone else in order to "gain" that betterment, then what's the point? You're then no better than the guy trying to keep you down.
He knows I'm not being serious
LightBeam wrote:I have adopted this philosophy a long time ago and understand the different stages of development. However, in some occasions like the following example, I turn into a ruthless "monster" lol
So, the other day I was driving back from work and I noticed one of the cars ahead of me weaving across lanes, almost hitting few cars, luckily the other drivers were paying attention. I stayed behind to keep an eye and that woman was clearly under the influence and have knowingly gotten behind the wheel. People like her cause devastating accidents that injure or take lives of innocent people. At that moment, I just wanted to pull her over, take her out of the car and beat the crap out of her lol. I have never made that mistake........ well at least not in this life.
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